Every daycare I know has operating hours. Whether these hours be open to drop-off and pick-up with the prescribed time or specifically spelled out individually in the contract, every provider has a start and end time to their day. Just like any other business there are hours set aside in the day for us to be responsible to someone else for our product or service. Unfortunately, there are times when parents do not view our hours with respect and decide that their time is more important than our own.
Tardiness is a pet peeve of mine. It reeks of disrespect. To me, it demonstrates that the person being late values their own time more than that of the person who is left waiting for them. It's rude, inconsiderate and will leave you without daycare. My thoughts are that if I can be here, on time, each and every morning then the parents can be here, on time, each and every evening. There has never been an occasion wherein a parent has come to drop-off their child to find me not here. But, I can assure you that I have stood staring at the ticking clock, muttering profanities under my breath many, many times.
What happens when a parent arrives to pick-up late? For me, it depends on a number of factors. The first of these factors would be frequency. How often is this parent late? The second factor is situational: Did they honestly get held up in a doctor's appointment? Or did they find their usual fifteen minute trip took triple the time in the ice storm of the year, and rush to get here sincerely apologetic and embarrassed at having stolen my free time? Or did they stroll in without a word of regret? All of these specifics come into play when I deal with a tardy parent.
Regardless of the reasons, one must have a late pick-up policy in their contract. And, the late fee should reflect an amount that not only compensates you for your extra time but acts as a deterrent to future infringements. Your late fee should also reflect your normal hourly rate. For most providers this would be between $15 and $20 an hour. Taking into account the average worker gets paid overtime fees of one and a half times his normal rate that would increase your fees likewise. My late fee is $15 per half hour or any part of that half hour. And, I expect that fee to be paid to me the next morning at drop-off if you wish to leave your child in care. And I mean that! No pay - no stay.
There are very few occasions wherein I have had to enforce the late fee policy. For the most part I make it very clear that tardiness will not be tolerated. It's amazing what parents will pick up on when you just spell it out for them. In fact, in all my years of daycare I have only enforced the policy on two families. The one family got the point and was never late again. The other wasn't so quick to pick up (no pun intended!) on my lack of patience at having to once again work an hour late on a Friday night. They assumed (wrongly) that paying me an extra $30 meant that they were entitled to be late anytime they damn well pleased as long as they came in with cash in their hand. They found their selves without daycare one Friday evening about six o'clock when they decided to stroll on in.
If you are too soft and don't want to rock the boat when parents are stealing your free time while enjoying more of their own then take this into account:
One hour a week of over time X fifty two weeks a year = 52 HOURS OF OVERTIME PER YEAR
Yes, you read that right. If you work only twelve minutes more every day then you will lose out on a weeks pay each and every year. How would you feel if I told you that next week you will care for all those smiling faces, wipe their bums, feed their tummies, and clean up their mess and you will do it all for FREE? My guess is that you would never fall for that. But, if you are not charging late fees when warranted then that is exactly what you are doing each and every year. Yep, working one whole, long, tiring week for free. Ready to change your mind yet about those late fees you aren't charging?
After hours fees exist for a reason. These fees are applied at a premium rate to compensate someone who has already worked their full week. These people should be relaxing, recharging and spending time with their families. Why do you think the after hours vet clinic or plumber, or furnace man charges such exorbitant rates? Why? Because that's what the cost is to him when he has to miss his child's dance recital or the family dinner. Time is money and if you put in the time you deserve the money.
If you don't have a late policy then type one up. Add it to your contract. You'll thank me for it later. And for those of you who are too scared, too nice, too easily pushed over then don't bitch and complain next time you miss your son's T-ball game because some inconsiderate parent thought his time was more important than yours. No, look at your son and tell him that your job is more important than his game.
Work for free? Who does that? Not me.
For concerns, advice or suggestions I welcome your email at judytrickett@yahoo.ca
This is so well written! I charge $1 per minute for late fees....why? Because quite simply I do not want to work even a minute past the time I am off. I don't have a problem with lates anymore either. In my daycare it gets you terminated faster than almost anything else.
ReplyDeleteOne day hopefully parents will come to understand that OUR time is just a valuable as THEIR time.
I was having trouble with one family, and it was when I didn't have a late fee policy in place. I promptly wrote one up, handed it to all families, and haven't had a problem since. I've only been running my daycare for a year, so I'm sure it will have to be enforced at some point, but just having it in place definitely makes a difference!
ReplyDeleteHi Judy, if a parent has a pick up time of 4:00pm but your hours are till 5:00pm. When would you charge the late fee, after 4:00pm? or after 5:00pm?
ReplyDeleteMy hours are from 6:00am till 5:00pm but all my parents have seperate contract drop off and pick up times within that time limit.
I'm not sure when I should apply the late fee.
Thanks for your awsome blog.
Well, I don't do specialized hours. I have an open time and a closing time and as long as your kid are only here within those times I couldn't care less. BUT....if your contract reads that a child is to be picked up by a certain time then in my opinion and time after the contracted time is overtime and should be paid for through late fees.
ReplyDeleteWhat if they are late for a ligit reason? I live in a large city and I know I have been late to my daycare because of transit (sometimes shut down due to accidents)
ReplyDeleteShould I charge my parents when this happens to them?
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ReplyDeleteI think I addressed that in my post. I'm not a pre-programmed inconsiderate robot who simply follows the data commands as programmed. I do have empathy. So, to answer your question - of course I would not charge them late fees for a VALID reason that happens once in a blue moon. But, I also have to say that the parents should also have a back-up plan in place for this situation. Call a grandparent or the spouse. Ya' know? But yeah, sometimes stuff happens. I'm not unrealistic. I live in the snow belt area of Ontario. Let me tell you there have been PLENTY of days that I look out the window at 4pm and KNOW that every parent will be late. And no, I don't stand at the door with my hand out asking for late fees.
I charge $1 per minute too. I used to charge 5 every 10 minutes but I had a parent who was constantly late(she had to school age children in an afterschool program and it was cheaper to be late at my house than there. So I changed it to $1 per minute. I am usually nice and dont charge the first time. I have had one or 2 where the second time they were quite late and I only charged 1/2. Stoppped doing that though because then they were quite late a third time. Of course after they have to pay $30 or more they arent usually late again! To they person who is technically open to 5(I would guess that means she has at least 1 family that needs until 5)but has people who are contracted to 4, I charge the late fees based on when they are contracted until. Doesnt matter what time the others are there until. I am not a center with many employees so I dont play the drop em off at 6am pick em up at 6pm game. You get the time you need and thats it.
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