
This week has been one of those weeks I would have gladly welcomed death. If someone had knocked on my door, handed me a bitter little pill and informed me that all would be over with its consumption I would have been running to the faucet to wash it down. Sadly, no one knocked on my door with a prescription to salvation and I had to live out every wretched moment of my week.
It is no mystery why the week was so exacerbating. The fact that at least one of my snotty nosed daycare kids shared with me their cough particulate that festered into my chest is just one reason for my misery. Combine a rolling ball of chest mucous with a screaming fourteen month old who has suddenly been pulled from the arms of her mother for the first time in her short life to be stuck here with me, the stranger, and it's no wonder that my ears hurt as much as my chest. The cherry on top comes in the form of a three year old Princess (referred to here) who feels the need to be the ultimate buzz killer of anything fun and exciting. Is it any wonder I wished for the Grim Reaper to ring my doorbell?
It's funny how one child can make or break your daycare day. I know this to be true because my three year old buzz killer is not here every day. Like the nicely dressed weather lady on the evening news I too can forecast what days of the week will be sunny or filled with dark looming clouds. Monday through Wednesday was overcast with a chance of typhoon. I saw it roll in Sunday night as I laid my head down on my pillow. And as fast as it rolled in it left and the clouds suddenly parted and the rays of sunshine streamed down in glorious ribbons Wednesday at 4:30pm.
I know how to ensure good weather all days of the week. In fact, if Kijiji is any help at all I am sure that before long it will be sunshine and the warm fuzzies every day of the week. Sometimes you have to cut your losses and move on for the sake of yourself and the other kids. It's never easy but then neither is watching the clouds roll in. And the lightening is down right frightening and scary. Yes, a three year old Princess can be compared to a hot summer night's thunderstorm or tropical typhoon. What can not be compared is the general feeling that she provides for the whole group to the easy, screamless days ahead once she is gone.
I'm hoping the sun peeks out more around here very soon. I imagine the sun's frequent appearances will coincide with the departure of the Princess. Next week, and perhaps the week after I forecast more dark, cloudy skies. However, by the time Thanksgiving greets us so will clear skies and cool, crisp winds. Well, at least that's what I'm forecasting.
For concerns, advice or suggestions I welcome your email at judytrickett@yahoo.ca
Here's hoping for clear skies for you this weekend and all next week Judy!
ReplyDeleteWhile I don't have a 'princess' in my crew I do have a 'Little Miss Bossy-pants' and this week and part of next she is on holidays...sweet, glorious holidays! It has been a much nicer week (gratefully as I too have been suffering from a child spread germ-infestation). It is amazing how my 'drama queen' has been a lot less dramatic, my 'yes-man' a little more willing to do his own thing, and my 'babied child' a little more independent...all because of the absence of 'Little Miss Bossy Pants'.
ReplyDeleteI know Wednesday (her scheduled return date) will come all too quickly but we (I) definitely needed this break. I will begin the count down to Christmas closure about a week later...but until then, I will enjoy the peace I have.
Feel better Judy!
Dmansmommy!
Well Judy - I hope Kijiji brings you clear skies in the near future. I don't have a 3 yr old 'princess' in my care but I do have an 18 month old screamer (she's been away sick most this week ( awwww bliss ) - if I can't get this under control really soon - you might be seeing my ad right beside yours! Good luck and feel better soon.
ReplyDeleteI needed this today! My storm clouds are in the form of 2 year old twins that bicker and have no volume control other than asleep and extra extra extra loud. Not bad kids but just kids that are hard on the head, ears and sanity. Haha.
ReplyDeletewe have all been there judy
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:) hope kijiji can help asap!!!!!
momof2
Best wishes for a QUICK change in the weather in your HCC!!! I'll be interested in seeing how the family reacts to your notice being given. ;-)
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One of the most difficult challenges that day cares face is the presence of a difficult child in a difficult situation such as the sudden onset of a storm or natural disaster. Just imagine a rainy day and some punk kid who wont stop complaining about how they want to go home because they dont like rain and wont calm down despite your best efforts. These are one of those scenarios that can be considered extra annoying but we all have those days .
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