Yesterday as I sat in the park watching my own two children and one daycare girl play in the makeshift tree fort I had to smile. There I sat sipping my coffee and taking in the sunshine. Adjacent to the park was the hustle and bustle of parents dropping off their children at school to scurry off to work in their office buildings. Teachers' cars filled the parking lot and I watched many of them saunter aimlessly toward the school.
There certainly are days in the world of daycare that make you want to pull out each of your hairs by the root. There are days wherein you wonder what in hell you were thinking when you took on that very first child all those years ago. You wonder how it is that you made it this long in a profession that entails so much work with so little acknowledgement. And then, you find yourself at the park.
As I sit in the comfort of my own home and type this blog I have to smile. Here I am, on a Friday, blogging and drinking coffee. I do not have children to care for today because I have the opportunity to chose my hours and work days. And so it is.
Today I have gratitude for the luxuries my job affords me. None of them by accident and all of them by choice - but luxuries nonetheless. Yesterday I played at the park. I got paid to sit and sip my Starbucks and listen to children giggle. And today I enjoy the benefit of a four day week.
Enjoy your day. And when you are in the depths of hell as we have all been on many, many days come back and read this post and remember the "why" we continue to do this job.
Yesterday someone paid me to play at the park. Today I am off with my family to do a little geocaching. Yes, I am fortunate and I have tremendous gratitude.
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i have the warm and fuzzies after reading your post. is it weird to say i love you judy?? LOL!! have a great weekend!
ReplyDeleteIt's so true. I left a demanding career to stay at home and I have never looked back. Despite a hellish summer with two kids I have since let go (I'll call them Screamer and Screamer Jr) I love my job. Especially now that I have this new found appreciation for just how lovely my other charges are compared to the banished screamers. It's nice to miss the hour long commute, having to rush my kids out the door to school and it's especially nice to drink tea and watch the kids play every morning while I read the paper. :)
ReplyDeleteWow! Did I need this today. Thank you for reminding me about the perks. Have a great weekend Judy and thanks.
ReplyDeleteI needed it too Judy!! Thanks! Have a good weekend!
ReplyDeleteI love love love moments like that. I savour those "I love my life" days; and clench my teeth to get through the "What am I doing this for" days. Hugs and have a great weekend too. You sound like you have a happy place now. ;)
ReplyDeleteI am happy for you Judy. Days and moments like that are really something to treasure. I love how you said it wasn't by accident by by choice-SO TRUE!!!!
ReplyDeleteDaycare providers aren't doing their job because they have to it's because they want to.
my daughter told me today that she is happy that she doesn't go to the before and after school program at her school..that made my day:)
xoxo
momof2
FX the moments come more often. Gotta love a feel-good post!
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Thanks Judy..for reminding me why I do what I do!!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is a beautiful take on choosing vocation over profession. I have to agree that looking at it in a nurturing perspective is one of the most inspiring ways of fostering a healthy outlook when starting a day care business. It is true, when you work for a daycare, you get paid to play, but not only that to nurture love and facilitate; all equally rewarding and spiritually fulfilling tasks.
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